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Western North Dakota , United States
My husband, Allen, and I are high school sweet hearts. We started dating Sep.99'- I kind of followed Allen home one day, and never did leave, is Allen's story. November 02' we were engaged, and on November 22,2003 - we were married. Having been married for 6 years in 2009, marked the 5th year we had been trying to start our family. With the referral of a Fertility Specialist from a friend, our IUI attempts ended up being a complete success despite my doubts. We welcomed our sweet little girl, Hayleigh into the world on June 30,2010 at 6:28am after 37wks and 1 day of gestation. She weighed 7lbs 14oz and was 20 in long. We found out that we were Baby #2 on April Fool's Day- a complete surprise! Reid Allen was born 11/13/12 3:24am 9lbs 8.2oz 21", after 38wks 5 days. Our 3rd baby, Eva Jane, was born on April 19, 2015 after suffering a pregnancy loss June of 2014. We are currently anxiously awaiting baby #4 due 2 days before Eva's birthday, so we are having Irish Twins! Our family is so blessed and happy to be growing!

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Sunday, April 18, 2010


As you can tell, I have been a little bit on edge lately. Things that are going on around our lives right now, are just way out of wack..but, it does no use to say anything about what is going on, when the problems are ignored, so, I will just write about what is driving me nuts lately....

Right now, I really despise people on welfare and wick, or public aide, who do not even need it, or are capable of getting jobs and actually in need of it. Some people really do need it, but, there are thousands out there right now, who do not. I really cannot stand these people who do not want to even try to give their kids a good life, they just want the kid there for the extra money they can get from the government, when there are people out there that still have no children of their own, and would make great parents. It seems like good morals, and good work ethics, are not being taught to the younger people of America anymore.

I also despise the people who make the excuses for the people out there that are up to no good, every little thing they do, is like they have won the Nobel Peace Prize or something... we do something great, it is just like we took out the garbage or mowed the lawn... ohh hoo hummm.. Quit trying to throw a blanket over the problem and act like it isn't there, or just because they are something to you, does not justify what they have done. It is not right. When you keep babying these people, they can never learn to stand on their own two feet and face their problems. The reason why they cannot stand on their own, is because they have never been told something is not okay to do in their life, or feel any shame for something they have done.

I just don't understand how when you try to do the right thing all of your life, and live as good as a life as possible, you are criticized, or it is never good enough. If you lead a path of one bad decision, after another, with no way of making a U turn in life, it is excepted as a good attempt in life. Dammed if you do, dammed if you don't... or Nice guys always finish last. What message does this teach our children?? Well, it is okay, "so and so" is just like that. This all  teaches them that it is okay to not even try in life. It teaches them that being a jobless, homeless, leach is perfectly acceptable in life. It does not teach them that if you do not do these things in life, you should be ashamed of yourself. All this does is creates a cycle... the future children have no chance of being taught right from wrong, or good morals, humility, and anything even about feeling shame.

I guess what I am trying to say is that I am sick and tired of trying to live the best life I can possible, helping all that I can, and not even being recognized for it, while the people who don't care what they do in life, using everyone in their wake, can be the hero. It is not my fault they are a dead beat, so, don't knock me for not being like that, calling me "stuck up".  I feel like a broken record now, repeating myself over and over, but, this is all a lost cause I am sure... the damage has already been done a long time ago.

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